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Our Vows



Vows

T&A-I vow to nurture, grow, and freely express my love for you.

T—I vow to be your partner in life, to create a safe home, open to friends, travelers, and people in need.
A---I vow to be your partner in Life, and to create a safe, fun, healthy, and welcoming home.

T—I vow to carry forward our lives’ purpose with  attention, honesty, and integrity.
A—I vow to powerfully further the purpose and goals of our union.

A—I promise to give you the freedom to be your wacky self, and I’ll support you as you grow and explore new ways of being.
T—I look forward to being present with you as you change and grow.  I will joyously support and encourage you as you pursue your own interests, expression, and friendships.

T & A—I vow to work with you as an equal partner in creating our home and livelihood in line with our life’s purpose.  I offer all that I have to this end. 

T---I vow to be engaged, honest, humble, and committed to the vision of our relationship, especially when going through difficult times.
A—I vow to find strength and remain committed to the vision of our relationship when going through difficult times.

A—I vow to provide you with a safe place to say things that you might have difficulty expressing.
T---I vow to listen, even when it’s hard and I may not want to hear what you have to say.  I vow to listen until you know that I understand.

A—I vow to maintain a healthy, strong body, to grow and birth our children and to raise them with love and joy.
T—I vow to care for you during pregnancy and nursing, to be a fun and loving father, as we raise and educate our children.

T & A—Should you pass before me from this life, I will create a safe, loving, and dignified space for that transition.  Should I pass before you, I will go with grace and gratitude.  I will wait for you on the other side.